Love Without Rescue

How to Love an Adult Grandchild Without Being Used, Drained, or Destroyed

von Mozelle Martin

174 Seiten, Taschenbuch

Kurzbeschreibung des Verlags

You can love your grandchild and still be destroyed by the role you were pulled into. Many grandparents step in during crisis and slowly become the stabilizing system-the money, the rides, the planning, the crisis management, the emotional regulation. Then, when they finally try to step back, they're treated as cold, selfish, or disloyal.- You become the calm one.- The financial buffer.- The emotional regulator.- The person who absorbs chaos so everyone else can keep functioning.Over time, generosity stops being optional and starts being expected. And when you try to step back, the system pushes back. This is not a book about fixing your adult grandchild. It is a book about staying humane without being consumed.Inside, Dr. Mozelle Martin names the patterns most families avoid:- how help becomes substitution- how money becomes regulation- how hope turns into self-erasure- why guilt feels moral and boundaries feel like betrayal- how to stay connected without collapsing- why truth gets minimized when it threatens the arrangementThis book offers a steady posture: neutral availability-warmth without urgency, contact without over-functioning, love without self-erasure.If you are exhausted by the cost of caring, this book gives you a map for stepping back without becoming cold-and for becoming the reference point, not the fix. You are allowed to love deeply and live your life without being ruled by guilt, shame, or grief.

• Reihe: Lulu.com
• ISBN: 9781105656644
• Sprache: Englisch
• Erscheinungsdatum: 14.02.2026
• Größe: 229 x 152 mm
• Verlag: Lulu Press