The Standby Instinct

Why You Can't Relax Even When Nothing Is Wrong

von Jordan Ellis

150 Seiten, Hardcover

Kurzbeschreibung des Verlags

In *The Standby Instinct*, author Jordan Ellis explores the hidden mechanism behind a question most peoplenever think to ask: why does peace feel like work? Rather than offering generic relaxation advice or addressingconventional anxiety, this book uncovers the specific pattern of a nervous system that has learned to stay braced- scanning for threats that aren't there, checking doors that are already locked, turning quiet Sunday morningsinto something that needs managing instead of enjoying.Drawing on behavioral psychology and neuroscience, Jordan Ellis reveals how vigilance becomesindistinguishable from readiness, creating a low-hum alertness that runs beneath every genuinely safemoment. The book traces this pattern from the meditator who quit because stillness made him more anxious, tothe retiree who can't sit in his own living room without the television on, to the vacationer compulsivelychecking a phone that never actually buzzed.Readers will discover:- Why the first three days of genuine rest often feel worse than the stress you left behind- The chest-tightening in an empty apartment where nothing is wrong- How good moments get checked for a catch instead of felt- The Sunday-morning static: attention scanning with nowhere to land- Why learned helplessness isn't just about giving up - it's about expecting futility even after the threatstops- The difference between healthy vigilance and a habit of unnecessary readiness*The Standby Instinct* provides the reframe needed to recognize this pattern as learned behavior, not character.By understanding how the body stays braced for signals it never expected, you can begin to interrupt thescan, reclaim the quiet moments you've been too alert to actually inhabit

• Themen: Ratgeber Familie und Gesundheit Ratgeber zu persönlichen, sozialen und gesundheitlichen Themen Ratgeber zu Angst und Phobien
• ISBN: 9781804287293
• Sprache: Englisch
• Erscheinungsdatum: 07.09.2026
• Größe: 235 x 157 mm
• Verlag: Readers First Publishing LTD