The Parts Within Us

von John Graham

368 Seiten, Taschenbuch

Kurzbeschreibung des Verlags

What if the parts of ourselves we struggle with are not the enemy, but are trying to protect us?The Parts Within Us is a gentle introduction to IFS-informed therapy and parts work, written for counsellors, psychotherapists, people in recovery and anyone interested in understanding their inner world with more compassion.Drawing on Internal Family Systems ideas, person-centred values, psychodynamic thinking, recovery and clinical experience, John Graham explores how different parts of us can develop protective roles in response to fear, shame, trauma, loneliness, attachment difficulties and emotional pain.The book introduces the three main categories of parts often described in IFS: - Managers, who try to keep life under control- Firefighters, who react quickly when pain feels overwhelming- Exiles, who often carry younger wounds, fear, shame and vulnerabilityIt also explores the qualities associated with Self, including the 8 Cs: Calm, Curiosity, Compassion, Clarity, Confidence, Courage, Connectedness and Creativity, alongside the 5 Ps: Presence, Patience, Perspective, Persistence and Playfulness.A practical focus of the book is the 6 Fs approach: Find, Focus, Flesh Out, Feel Toward, Befriend and FearsThese steps can help people begin identifying, understanding and mapping their inner parts without treating them as problems to be eliminated.The book explores: - how protective parts develop- unblending and creating space from intense emotions- inner critics, shame and self-judgement- anxiety and social anxiety- addiction and compulsive behaviour- trauma and the importance of pacing- attachment and inner security- couples and relationship patterns- working collaboratively with parts maps- spirituality and Self-leadership- using journals, drawings, apps and technology to support parts work- the use of tools such as ChatGPT and the IFS Guide app alongside therapeutic workThe approach throughout is compassionate and practical. Parts are not viewed as defective. Even behaviours that become destructive may have begun as attempts to protect the person from something that once felt unbearable.John Graham writes from an IFS-informed perspective. He has completed the IFS Institute's six-month IFS Online Circle, but has not completed official IFS Level 1, Level 2 or Level 3 training and does not present himself as an IFS-certified therapist. The book therefore encourages appropriate caution, especially when working with trauma and deeply vulnerable exiled parts.Written for therapists, addiction counsellors, people in recovery and readers interested in parts work, The Parts Within Us offers an accessible way of understanding inner conflict, protection and healing.When we stop fighting our parts and begin listening to them, something inside us can start to change.

• Themen: Ratgeber
• ISBN: 9781911812043
• Sprache: Englisch
• Erscheinungsdatum: 20.10.2026
• Größe: 229 x 152 mm
• Verlag: Inner Recovery Press