The Role You Carry, The Self You Keep

A Guide to Holding Onto Yourself for Sandwich Generation Caregivers

von Rosalind Whitfield

92 Seiten, Taschenbuch

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You are not disappearing. You're just buried.For years, you've been the one who remembers the medications, fields the doctor's calls, and holds the family together while quietly wondering when - or if - you stopped being a person and became only a role. This isn't a book about rebuilding your identity after caregiving ends. It's about the harder, lonelier question: who are you while it's still happening, with no end date in sight?In The Role You Carry, The Self You Keep, Rosalind Whitfield - author of Stretched Thin, Still Standing and The Guilt You Carry, The Grace You Deserve - turns to philosophy not as theory, but as company for the 2 a.m. moments when you can't remember the last opinion you had that wasn't about someone else's medication schedule.Across ten unflinching chapters, you'll explore: - Why caregiving quietly reclassifies you from a person into a function - and how Buber's philosophy names exactly what's been lost- What Stoicism says actually stays yours, no matter what the role demands- Why Buddhist teachings on impermanence reframe "losing yourself" as something other than erasure- How to keep caring for someone else without disappearing into them, through the lens of care ethics- Concrete, low-effort "small rebellions" that protect a thread of you inside a schedule with no margin left- Why your worth was never conditional on your usefulness - Kant's answer to the guilt of taking up space- What Viktor Frankl can teach you about meaning that doesn't require self-abandonmentThis is not a book of easy affirmations or seven-step fixes. It's a companion for anyone caring for an aging parent, a spouse, or a loved one in decline - someone who needs permission to still be a whole person in the room, even now, even today.You are allowed to still be someone. This book will help you remember how.

• ISBN: 9798174719279
• Sprache: Englisch
• Erscheinungsdatum: 16.09.2026
• Größe: 229 x 152 mm
• Verlag: Amazon Digital Services LLC - Kdp