No Winners

Understanding Men, Women, and the Shared Struggle for Healthy Relationships in a Broken World

von Chifundo Dennis Phiri

128 Seiten, Taschenbuch

Kurzbeschreibung des Verlags

In a world of gender wars, ideology, and silence, there are no winners - only people trying to understand each other.

No Winners is a rare and necessary book. Drawing on personal experience, research, African cultural history, scripture, and the lived realities of men and women, Malawian writer and civic advocate Chifundo D Phiri refuses to take sides. Instead, he opens an honest conversation about the wounds both genders carry, the stories we inherit, and the practical path toward mutual accountability and ordinary peace.

From the hypervigilance built into boys, the silence that traps men and the paranoia it produces in women, to the incomplete cultural transition around equality and responsibility, Phiri examines the red pill, incel ideology, certain strains of feminism, religious cherry-picking, African systems such as lobola and matrilineality, and the modern intercultural family. He does so without villains and without excuses - only explanations that make change possible.

Readers will find: - A clear-eyed look at how boys and girls are shaped by family warnings, screens, pornography, and romantic media- Practical insight into suspicion, emotional unavailability, and the social cost of infidelity- Honest engagement with abortion, paternity, consent, clothing, and institutional standards- A vision of manhood and womanhood grounded in character, contribution, and symbiosis rather than performance or ideology>With a foreword by Dr. Steven Fidel Mlangiza, Co-Founder and Executive Director of Men of Tomorrow (MOTO),

No Winners is written for parents, young adults, couples, educators, faith leaders, and anyone tired of the battlefield. It does not demand that anyone surrender their dignity or progress. It simply asks both men and women to look in the mirror, tell the truth, and choose understanding over division.

There are no winners when men and women stop listening to each other. There is hope when we choose honesty, mutual responsibility, and the ordinary daily work of building something that lasts.

This is not the end of the conversation. It is the beginning of an honest one.

• Reihe: Independently published
• ISBN: 9798174808393
• Sprache: Englisch
• Erscheinungsdatum: 16.09.2026
• Größe: 229 x 152 mm
• Verlag: Independently published