WINNING AT WHAT COST

How to Choose Connection Over Being Right in Love, Friendship, and Family

von Victor Agbeje Sunday

104 Seiten, Taschenbuch

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Winning at What CostHow to Choose Connection Over Being Right in Love, Friendship, and FamilyWhat happens when the need to be right becomes more important than the relationship?A disagreement begins with a simple conversation. Then the voices rise. Someone feels disrespected. An apology is withheld. Days become weeks. A friendship becomes distant. A marriage becomes strained. And eventually, both people may forget what they were fighting about in the first place.Winning at What Cost is a Christian book about relationships, conflict, communication, forgiveness, reconciliation, humility, and the hidden cost of always needing to be right.Born from a difficult personal experience, Victor Agbeje Sunday explores what happens when arguments become more important than connection and when proving a point begins to cost us trust, peace, friendship, intimacy, and the relationships we were meant to build.Through personal stories, biblical principles, practical reflections, and honest questions, this book explores: - Why the need to be right can damage healthy relationships- How conflict and discord begin and gradually escalate- How poor communication can turn a small disagreement into lasting distance- Why winning an argument does not always mean winning the relationship- How pride and a bruised ego can make reconciliation difficult- How to apologise, make amends, and rebuild trust- What biblical reconciliation looks like after conflict- How forgiveness and humility can create a path back to connection- When to pursue peace and when healthy boundaries are necessary- Why keeping score can destroy relationships and how covenant changes the way we see them- How to handle conflict in marriage, friendship, family, and other important relationshipsThis book does not teach you to ignore wrongdoing, avoid difficult conversations, or surrender truth just to keep the peace. Some issues need to be confronted. Some apologies need to be made. Some boundaries need to be established.But not every disagreement needs to become a war.And not every person you disagree with is your enemy.Sometimes, the person standing across from you is the very person you were meant to build with.So before you raise your voice, bring out the evidence, withdraw, refuse to apologise, or decide that you can do without someone, stop and ask: What am I actually fighting for?And then ask the harder question: At what cost?If you are looking for Christian relationship advice on conflict resolution, communication, forgiveness, reconciliation, marriage, friendship, family relationships, or overcoming the need to always be right, Winning at What Cost offers a personal and practical invitation to look beyond the argument and protect what truly matters.Because sometimes, the greatest victory is not proving that you were right.Sometimes, it is finding your way back to the table.

• Reihe: Independently published
• ISBN: 9798176045796
• Sprache: Englisch
• Erscheinungsdatum: 21.09.2026
• Größe: 229 x 152 mm
• Verlag: Independently published