What I Learned (Nothing, But Here's What I Noticed)

von Jason Ramshaw

174 Seiten, Taschenbuch

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What I Learned (Nothing, But Here's What I Noticed) Book Four in the Still Noticing seriesHe wrote three books about noticing everything. The childhood patterns. The adult echoes. The diagnosis that gave it a name but not an off switch. Then someone - possibly him - suggested he write a fourth book about what he actually learned.So he sat down and tried.He tried to learn a lesson about starting things. At ten, he charged neighborhood kids admission to a haunted house built from garbage bags and wire hangers. At forty, he mailed a physical book to a publisher who specifically asked him not to. The lesson was supposed to be "know when to stop." He has not stopped.He tried to learn a lesson about being right. He was right about the spelling bee. He was right about the armrest. He was right about the aquarium line. It has helped him exactly zero times socially.He tried to learn a lesson about effort. He wrapped a gift in seven pages of newspaper. The lesson should have been "do less." He will not be doing less.He tried to learn a lesson about fatherhood. His thirteen-year-old daughter skipped a ninety-minute line by doing something that never once occurred to him: asking. The operating system transferred. Then it upgraded without his permission.Thirteen chapters. Thirteen attempted lessons. Thirteen failures.Every chapter starts with a premise and ends with an observation. Every observation pretends to be progress. It isn't. It's very detailed remembering - the same very detailed remembering he's been doing for four books and forty years.What I Learned is the book that was never supposed to exist. Jason Ramshaw - the man who built a haunted house with an office chair and a price of admission, who catalogued every room he ever walked into, who was eventually diagnosed as "generalized" (a category he would like to appeal) - goes back through his own evidence looking for the lesson.He doesn't find it. But he finds something better: the admission that the pattern was never a skill. It was a coping mechanism. And the only honest thing left to do was write it down one more time and see if anyone else recognized it.For fans of David Sedaris, Sloane Crosley, and Nora Ephron. For anyone who has ever read a room too early, noticed too much, and been told to relax by someone who has never once scanned a seating chart before sitting down.There are no lessons. But there is, at this point, a pretty good bit.