What the Lips Remember

Poems of Presence and Remaining

von Jose Larraga

192 Seiten, Taschenbuch

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What the Lips Remember: Poems of Presence and RemainingWhat the Lips Remember - because even when everything fades, the lips still know the words that matter most.For more than fifteen years, Jose Larraga has visited senior living communities every single week - not as an assignment, and not out of obligation, but out of love. Over time, the residents he came to know stopped being people he simply visited and became something closer to family. What the Lips Remember is the poetry collection born from those years: eighty-five poems written in the voices of residents and the people who love them, capturing what still remains when so much else has quietly been asked to leave - memory, mobility, even names.The collection unfolds across five sections. Reaching captures the disorientation and quiet hope of first arriving in a place that was never meant to feel like home, and slowly learning to let it become one. Choosing explores love not as a single feeling but as a decision renewed with every visit, every ordinary Tuesday, regardless of what is remembered or forgotten. The Weight sits honestly with what aging and illness take from the body, without ever mistaking that cost for defeat. What Remains turns toward memory itself - what survives intact even as facts and dates slip away, and what it means to be the one who remembers for someone else. Today closes the collection in a place of unexpected joy: bingo strategy, the right flavor of ice cream, a haircut day, a mirror that almost agrees - proof that an ordinary day, lived fully, can still be one of the best of a life.These are not poems about decline. They are poems about presence - a mother's lullaby that survives sixty years intact, a hand that still finds another in the dark, a prayer recited since childhood that never once needed relearning, a love that grows easier and softer with time rather than harder. Written with tenderness, humor, and clear-eyed honesty, What the Lips Remember speaks directly to residents, caregivers, families, and anyone who has loved someone through the difficult and sacred work of aging.This book does not ask readers to look away from what is lost. It asks them to notice, more closely, what is not. Dignity does not end where memory begins to fail. Love does not require a working memory to remain real. And some of the best days of a life may still be the ones still arriving - not despite growing older, but because of everything a long life has finally taught a person to notice.What the Lips Remember is a book about love that continues without needing to be recalled. About ordinary days still capable of wonder.For residents, for families, and for anyone who will one day need to be reminded: you are still someone's legacy - your light still shines, and what matters most has not left you.

• Themen: Ratgeber Familie und Gesundheit Häusliche Pflege und Betreuung / Ratschläge für Pflegende
• ISBN: 9798995953326
• Sprache: Englisch
• Erscheinungsdatum: 01.10.2026
• Größe: 229 x 152 mm
• Verlag: Aether Dreamers Publishers